it’s sickening to watch them attempt to fondle a woman that just wants to be friends
Historically speaking, I have had the opposite problem. I have such a gentlemanly, hands-off approach to women that I too often end up with the dreaded “I just want to be friends” response when I finally do get the courage and comfort level to attempt contact.
Either that, or they end up accusing me of “coming on to them,” or “having a quest to fuck them!”
I’ve never had the personality to use the “99-slap” method.