{"id":29,"date":"2002-06-17T16:27:00","date_gmt":"2002-06-17T16:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/?p=29"},"modified":"2002-06-17T16:27:00","modified_gmt":"2002-06-17T16:27:00","slug":"a-few-thoughts-about-s-e-x","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/2002-06\/29-a-few-thoughts-about-s-e-x","title":{"rendered":"A few thoughts about S-E-X"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>BACKGROUND:<\/b> The theme for the July issue of <a HREF=\"http:\/\/www.badinage.com\/zerocard\"><b><i>The Zero Card<\/i><\/b><\/a> is &#8220;Losing It,&#8221; all about virginity and having sex for the first time. Of course, that also refers not just to the <b>very<\/b> first time you had sex, but also the first time you had sex with a particular person! I&#8217;m looking for articles, so if you have a story you want to tell, let me know!<\/p>\n<p><b>FOREGROUND:<\/b> Here&#8217;s a few thoughts going through my head at the moment, which will probably become the basis for my main article:<\/p>\n<p>As near as I can tell, everybody remembers the first time they had sex: who it was with, where they were, how it felt, and so on. But I cannot remember! Oh, I remember WHO it was, and I have a vague idea of where it was and how old we were. But I cannot for the life of me remember the details of that very first time.<\/p>\n<p>I have come to learn that I was apparently very young, at least when compared to other people my current age. And I also know that my period of sexual activity lasted only a few years, whereupon I became celebate (as much out of choice as by circumstance) for about 17 years until I once again lost my virginity. That&#8217;s me, the Born-Again Virgin! (Being a male, the concept of virginity is more emotional than physical&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>[and this is where my current train of thought leaves me. What can you expect when I&#8217;m sitting here at work? Speaking of which, dealing with <b>THAT<\/b> is a different issue!]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>BACKGROUND: The theme for the July issue of The Zero Card is &#8220;Losing It,&#8221; all about virginity and having sex for the first time. Of course, that also refers not just to the very first time you had sex, but &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/2002-06\/29-a-few-thoughts-about-s-e-x\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}