{"id":118,"date":"2002-09-09T10:40:00","date_gmt":"2002-09-09T10:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/?p=118"},"modified":"2002-09-09T10:40:00","modified_gmt":"2002-09-09T10:40:00","slug":"too-much-a-gentleman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/2002-09\/118-too-much-a-gentleman","title":{"rendered":"Too Much a Gentleman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a HREF=\"http:\/\/www.livejournal.com\/talkread.bml?journal=denovan&#038;itemid=18200\"><i>it&#8217;s sickening to watch them attempt to fondle a woman that just wants to be friends<\/i><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Historically speaking, I have had the opposite problem. I have such a gentlemanly, hands-off approach to women that I too often end up with the dreaded &#8220;I just want to be friends&#8221; response when I finally do get the courage and comfort level to attempt contact.<\/p>\n<p>Either that, or they end up accusing me of &#8220;coming on to them,&#8221; or &#8220;having a quest to fuck them!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve never had the personality to use the &#8220;99-slap&#8221; method.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>it&#8217;s sickening to watch them attempt to fondle a woman that just wants to be friends Historically speaking, I have had the opposite problem. I have such a gentlemanly, hands-off approach to women that I too often end up with &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/2002-09\/118-too-much-a-gentleman\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-118","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=118"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=118"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=118"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/badinage.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=118"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}